Friday, August 30, 2013

First Month Must Haves

I can't believe it's been a month since Akayla's arrival. It's been an amazing ride so far! As I reflect on our first month...and life as new parents...and life with a newborn...I thought I would share some of our must haves from the month.

1. Aden and Anais Swaddle blankets. I love these! Swaddle blankets are a must...but I especially love the ones made out of super soft cotton muslin material or bamboo. Aden and Anais is becoming a super popular brand and I see why. They are a great size, lightweight (which is really nice for a summer baby), breathable and comfy. I also recommend the similar styles made by Swaddle Designs and Chick Pea.

2. Avent Soothie Pacifiers. First, I must say, as a first time parent I had no idea you have to boil new pacifiers. So glad my mother in law was here to tell me because I honestly didn't take the time to read or even realize that there were instructions on the package. Second, I will admit that I gave into a pacifier sooner than I had hoped and planned. I had read, and was also told during a parenting class, that you should wait 4 weeks to introduce a pacifier to a new born. I believe the intentions are to ensure there is no nipple confusion and to make sure your baby has fully mastered breastfeeding before offering a pacifier. Needless to say, whether it was or wasn't the right thing to do...I offered Akayla a pacifier at about 10 days old after getting the all clear from her Pediatrician. While she doesn't use one regularly, or need one to fall asleep, they have come in handy. She is showing preference to the Avent Soothie brand over the others she has, even though I personally think they are the ugliest thing (not cute for pictures either!).

3. Lansinoh HPA Lanolin. For all breastfeeding mothers...this is a must!!! It was recommended to me by many experienced mothers and boy am I SO GLAD I had it on hand from the very beginning. This product soothes and protects...truly provides the much needed relief you'll need.

4. Britax Car Seat and Stroller. So it's no surprise that every new parent needs a car seat. These days the hospital won't let you leave without one. We chose Britax for both the car seat and stroller and, so far, are very happy with both products.

5. Fisher Price Rock 'N Play Sleeper. We decided to try this product instead of a true bassinet. Every baby needs a place to sleep and this product has worked well for us so far. It is lightweight and portable so you can easily move it from one room to another. This is why I like this product so much...especially for a newborn. We move it to the living room for naps, outside when we are eating on the patio and back to the bedroom at night.

6. Mommy's Bliss Gripe Water. Mr. heard about this product a few weeks before Akayla was born and purchased a bottle. We heard even more about it at as it came highly recommended at our parenting/baby basics class. Mommy’s Bliss® Gripe Water is a safe and effective all natural herbal supplement used to ease gas and stomach discomfort often associated with colic, hiccups and teething. Akayla has been more receptive to this product vs. gas drops. As a baby that gets the hiccups multiple times each day and has had a few bouts of gas, this product has really come in handy.

7. Pampers Diapers. This is the obvious one...every baby needs diapers! We decided to use Pampers Swaddles first and they have worked out well for us. I just recently decided to purchase Earth's Best Diapers instead to try and may even consider cloth diapers but I can highly recommend Pampers.

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Thursday, August 8, 2013

Bringing Home Baby...

It was so exciting to bring baby Akayla home. While we were happy to have stayed a second night in the hospital, we were more than ready to leave on Tuesday morning, July 30th.


First time in the car seat

Sleepy girl in the car on the way home

All tuckered out from the eventful day

We were welcomed with a number of wonderful gifts, including these beautiful flower arrangements. Thank you for all of the love, support, and well wishes!

I also want to take a minute to say thank you to all of the staff at Mary Birch Hospital for making my stay so pleasant. I feel blessed to have received some of the best care from their amazing doctors and nurses. Pin It

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Welcome Little One...

It's officially our due date..August 3rd (well...actually...since I didn't get this completed yesterday as planned it's technically the 4th and one day past our due date). As much as I had planned that this day would come and go...all while impatiently waiting for baby girl to arrive...I am thrilled to say we got to spend the day with the newest member of our family.

Akayla Joy arrived on Sunday, July 28th at 11:37am...6 days early. She weighed 7lb 8oz and was 20.5 inches long.

Here are how things unfolded...

Friday, July 26th: Had my weekly doctors appt. My doctor, who I must say has been absolutely amazing, did an exam and confirmed that my cervix was still closed and I wasn't dilated. I wasn't disappointed by this news...we still another 8 days until my due date and I think the statistics say that most first time moms are late. I mentally had already begun preparing myself that I wouldn't deliver by my due date. I did, however, have an agreement with my doctor not to go past August 9th.

Saturday, July 27th: After a rather long and unusual night. I think I had gotten up at least 5 times to go to the bathroom and each time I woke up I noticed cramps that were getting progressively worse. I didn't think to much of it until I woke at 5:30am. I thought to myself...is this the start of something?? Could this possibly be it?? For the past month, I had been telling Mr. every time I felt something "new" or "different" which, on multiple occasions, resulted in me saying to him "this might be it!". Most times he wouldn't believe me or would say "this baby isn't coming anytime soon...she's going to be late...probably will be the 9th".

Once I got downstairs I started thinking of all the things I needed to get done...I'm not sure if this is considered nesting or a last minute scramble. My bags were half packed...I had some things together but not everything. I needed to wash baby clothes..especially baby's coming home outfit. My mother in law was coming into town from out of state in the evening. In my mind, and in recent discussions with her, we had talked about all the things we would do together before the baby arrived. I would officially be on leave from work and looked forward to having her here to help me finish getting the baby things together...washing the baby clothes and getting the house ready. Her flight had been booked months ago...and now I began to think she may get here just in time for the birth. I spent the morning doing laundry and packing the hospital bags. As much as I wanted to run in and tell Mr. that I thought it WAS REALLY HAPPENING, I knew he was going to need his sleep. When he finally got up I told him...and of course, he had a lot of doubt. It didn't take too long for him to see that it really was looking like labor. I probably over did it a little during our time at home but I just couldn't sit still. I was full of emotions...excited, scared, nervous, anxious. Finally, after tracking and timing the contractions for a few hours Mr. called the nurse line at the hospital. They told us to wait until the labor pains were intense and less than 5 minutes apart.

I must admit, I am a baby when it comes to pain. My pain tolerance is low...very low. So we waited...and waited at home as long as I could. At 3:30pm I told Mr. I was ready. We really didn't want to get the hospital and be told we needed to leave and come back but at this point I was ready to take that risk just to get there. The car ride seemed long and uncomfortable. While I would love to share the highs and lows of the whole labor I don't want to cross the line of sharing TMI so I will keep it simple...we were admitted and after a LOOONNNNGGGG sleepless night with little progress I finally had little baby girl at 11:37am...just over 30 hours of labor. While the labor and delivery did not come easy I can say it was all so worth it...and truly the best day of my life.


Mr. with his bundle of joy

My mother-in-law (aka Yaya) who arrived in plenty of time for the arrival
Enjoying every minute with the newest (and most beautiful!) member of our family

On a side note, I must apologize that we didn't get to take one final maternity/belly picture before she arrived. We had planned to take a 39 week picture on Saturday or Sunday (but, of course, because I went into labor we didn't get a chance to).

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